Angel Parent Vs Daemon Parent

I have been repeatedly told by everyone – Don't give any “saja” (punishment) to Krisha. Use maaro mat.

I agree with the second part. We should never give corporeal punishment to our kids. However, punishment has to be there. Also, both the parents can not be the devils at the same time. One person has to act tough and other person has control if things go out of hand. Child should not feel that he/she doesnt have anyone to bank upon.

Given that, I believe it is necessary to imbibe the feeling of good and bad in the kids from very early on. Kids will always be kids. Its their birth right to do naughty stuff. They will also cause some damage while doing that. This is all part of learning curve. Honestly, I would be more worried if Krisha doesn't do these things instead if she does. However, she should know herself if she knows she has done something which is not right. She also understands when she gets a scolding. If we scold her just like that (shout etc), she starts laughing :).

Once she has has done something like that, she comes to us and gives enough indication that something is wrong. Then the process of explanation starts. its a lengthy process; sometimes we do get frustrated. Still, i feel the result are showing up slowly.

Many a times I also indulge is small cute naughty activities. Its heartening to see her remember small small things. She observes and learns.

Who is devil and who is an Angel amongst me and Suchi? Probably both of us are both. It is required.